Bringing up a pre-nup can feel awkward, but timing and tone make all the difference. The
best time to discuss it is well before the wedding, when both partners can approach the
conversation calmly and thoughtfully.
Tips for a respectful discussion:
• Frame it as a mutual protection plan, not a lack of trust
• Emphasize transparency and fairness
• Consider mediation to create a balanced agreement that reflects both partners’
values.

Rebecca Adenekan offers culturally sensitive legal guidance and mediation services for
couples considering pre-nuptial agreements. Whether you are planning a marriage or
navigating a separation, Rebecca helps you thread the path of justice with clarity,
compassion, and respect.